Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site pucc-h Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!cmcl2!floyd!vax135!ariel!houti!hogpc!houxm!ihnp4!ixn5c!inuxc!pur-ee!CSvax:Pucc-H:aeq From: CSvax:Pucc-H:aeq@pur-ee.UUCP Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: RE: How honest are you willing to be in a relationship? Message-ID: <300@pucc-h> Date: Fri, 23-Sep-83 22:16:20 EDT Article-I.D.: pucc-h.300 Posted: Fri Sep 23 22:16:20 1983 Date-Received: Mon, 26-Sep-83 22:07:33 EDT References: <229@ih1ap.UUCP> Organization: Purdue University Computing Center Lines: 19 I find that I am the reverse of many people. I feel that if I'm going to spend time with someone at all, it might as well be meaningful, quality time. Engaging in casual activities with people whom I know only casually seems a waste of time; if I'm going to spend time with a person, I want to know that person and be known by her/him. (About the only exception to this is that I often eat with people I know only casually; but then, I have to eat anyway, and I'm not sto eat anyway, and I'm not so much of a hacker that I don't dislike eating alone. [That's a good sentence for net.nlang!]) Does anyone have any ideas on how to fit this unusual outlook into the fearful societal mores, which dictate that you must waste a lot of time on chaff o much of a hacker that I don't dislike eating alone. [That's a good sentence for net.nlang!]) Does anyone have any ideas on how to fit this unusual outlook into the fearful societal mores, which dictate that you must waste a lot of time on chaff before you get to the wheat? Also, may I recommend a book on this topic I recently read. It's entitled "Why Am I Afraid to Tell You Who I Am?", by John Powell, S.J. It provides an insightf