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From: jvenner@wateng.UUCP (Jason P. Venner)
Newsgroups: net.women,net.singles
Subject: An honest request for information
Message-ID: <454@wateng.UUCP>
Date: Fri, 21-Oct-83 02:52:10 EDT
Article-I.D.: wateng.454
Posted: Fri Oct 21 02:52:10 1983
Date-Received: Fri, 21-Oct-83 07:16:19 EDT
Organization: U of Waterloo, Ontario
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     I	   have	    an	    interesting	     problem/view      on
relationships/encounters with motos (yes I am hetero.)

     I seem to feel that I am trying to	_c_a_j_o_l_e motos into  having
sexual	relations(hips)	 with  me.  If I do _c_o_n_v_i_n_c_e them, after-
ward, I	seem to	be expected to	be  beholden  to  them	for  this
gift/service that I have received.  This stuff (my feelings) have
been aggravated	by my awareness	of human  rights  (in  this  case
feminism.) Needless to say this	all makes me feel pretty scummy.

     I don't particularly want to use motos as objects,	and don't
think  that  this  is what I do.  But is the fact that I like sex
(no religious flames please) bad, don't	motos  (in  my	case  fe-
males)	like  sex  too.	 Why is	it that	they seem to have a price
that must be paid in exchange for sex.

     Do	I just run into	the wrong motos?

     Now that I	have finished crying in	my beer, advise	 and  (no
doubt)	flames expected.  Please reply by mail.	 I should summar-
ise all	too.

-- 
				yours sincerely,
				Jason P. Venner
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(decvax!watmath!wateng!jvenner)		:	Canada.
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