Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site watmath.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!jamcmullan From: jamcmullan@watmath.UUCP (Judy McMullan) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Male feminists? Message-ID: <6058@watmath.UUCP> Date: Tue, 1-Nov-83 17:10:53 EST Article-I.D.: watmath.6058 Posted: Tue Nov 1 17:10:53 1983 Date-Received: Wed, 2-Nov-83 01:23:29 EST Organization: U of Waterloo, Ontario Lines: 53 The recent submissions about whether a man should/can call himself a feminist have prompted me to post a portion of a lecture that Margaret Atwood gave at the University of Waterloo, last year. I was so impressed with her definition of feminism that I copied it down. I have reproduced it here without permission. I can't recall the exact words of the question that she was answering but I believe it was "Are you a feminist?". "Feminist issues are not just for women. They are human rights issues just as war should not concern men alone though it's mostly men in the front lines. I find men who react to women's issues or women's studies with the standard paranoia, "Why do you hate men?" and so forth, understandable but ignorant. A university is not a place where ignorance should be encouraged. I look forward, however, to the time when both feminist groups and wars will no longer be with us, having become obsolete. Here's another answer. Any woman who can read and write is a feminist. People chained themselves to fences and starved and were beaten up and killed to get you that right. Any woman who has legal rights over her own children is a feminist. Remember the origin of the word "family". It comes from Roman "familia" which meant the total group of people controlled by a male householder including women, children and slaves. Any woman who is allowed to vote is a feminist. We've only had that right here [Ontario] for 52 years. Any woman or man who believes in equal pay for equal work is a feminist. Any man who doesn't believe it's his God-given privilege to beat up or kill his wife or sexually molest his children is a feminist. Any woman or man who is against rape and violent pornography, who isn't turned on by movies of women being strangled, disemboweled and hung up with meat hooks, is a feminist. Any one, woman or man, who thinks a man should be judged as to his worthiness by qualities such as a sense of humour, admirableness of character, helpfulness in a tight spot, moral integrity, inventiveness, creativity of any kind, courteousness and courage, and not just as a money-making robot, is a feminist. Because if women are forced to depend on men for food, that is how they will tend to evaluate men and no man I've ever met really likes to be loved just for his bank account. Hands up for the feminists in this room." --Margaret Atwood (about) February 1982 --Judy McMullan ...!{allegra|decvax}!watmath!jamcmullan