Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site utcsstat.UUCP Path: utzoo!utcsstat!laura From: laura@utcsstat.UUCP (Laura Creighton) Newsgroups: net.philosophy Subject: Re: (ir)rationality and (un)selfishness Message-ID: <1406@utcsstat.UUCP> Date: Tue, 8-Nov-83 23:02:12 EST Article-I.D.: utcsstat.1406 Posted: Tue Nov 8 23:02:12 1983 Date-Received: Wed, 9-Nov-83 01:33:26 EST References: <462@dciem.UUCP>, <670@grkermit.UUCP> Organization: U. of Toronto, Canada Lines: 23 I don't see that this is why people tip at all. I have a very strict rule about tipping -- great service, 20%, okay service 10% plus all the change that I will get back which I don't want to carry around because I couldn't be bothered, and lousy service, no tip. I used to work in a restaurant, and they don't pay you enough because they expect you to make it up in tips. That's why I tip -- I don't really consider it an extra, but more like part of what I expect to pay for dinner. However, most people I go out with think that tipping is *essential*. We get lousy service, adn I decide not to tip. These people would feel too guilty if they did not tip, so they tip *anyway*. And often they tip heavily, to compensate for me who is not tipping at *all*. And they look at me horrified and say "Won't you feel embarrassed?" They really don't believe me when I say that I MOST DEFINITELY will not be embarrassed. And if these people are acting superrationally, I will eat my coat sleeve (not having any hat!). Laura Creighton utzoo!utcsstat!laura