Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1exp 11/4/83; site ihuxi.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!harpo!floyd!clyde!ihnp4!ihuxi!walsh From: walsh@ihuxi.UUCP (B. Walsh) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: girls - (nf) Message-ID: <711@ihuxi.UUCP> Date: Thu, 1-Dec-83 09:45:03 EST Article-I.D.: ihuxi.711 Posted: Thu Dec 1 09:45:03 1983 Date-Received: Fri, 2-Dec-83 08:16:02 EST References: <2605@hp-pcd.UUCP> Organization: AT&T Bell Labs, Naperville, Il Lines: 14 Are the strange looks you're getting from women, men or both? I'm surprised that women would think it strange to be called 'women' rather than 'girls'. I think the term girls is insulting to a woman over 18 years of age. Same goes for boys vs. men. I think, however, the term 'girls' has been so ingrained in people to describe groups of women that it may sound strange, but I think that that should and probably is changing. Think of the strange looks you'd get if you were to address a group of men as 'boys'! All adult women I know describe their female friends as 'girlfriends', but all adult men I know NEVER describe male friends as 'boyfriends'. That's another interesting difference in our use of language. B. Walsh