Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site utcsstat.UUCP Path: utzoo!utcsstat!laura From: laura@utcsstat.UUCP (Laura Creighton) Newsgroups: net.women,net.legal Subject: Re: Rape in Ontario Message-ID: <1508@utcsstat.UUCP> Date: Fri, 2-Dec-83 23:34:16 EST Article-I.D.: utcsstat.1508 Posted: Fri Dec 2 23:34:16 1983 Date-Received: Sat, 3-Dec-83 00:13:16 EST References: <343@watdaisy.UUCP>, <2873@utcsrgv.UUCP> Organization: U. of Toronto, Canada Lines: 35 Your argument about "nobody going to the trouble of going to court and dragging themselves through the mud" may not hold for precisely the sort of person who would do such a thing. There are always people who "consider their lives ruined" and really want to get back at a person. They do not feel that they can be dragged down any lower. I remember reading about a women who decided to charge her divorced husband with rape for this reason. Unfortunately for her (though fortunately for him) he was at a friend's wedding at the time that the rape was alledged to occur, and so had *lots* of witnesses. At the time it was not clear whether the alledged victim really believed the rape had taken place or believed that it *hadn't* and was well aware that she was lying. Either way, it could have been very messy for the person accused. I also know of one case where a woman who was raped was prepared to swear on anything that you care to name that a person in a police lineup was definitely, and without a question of a doubt the person who raped her. The problem was that he was an undercover policeman who was definitely not the rapist. This is not surprising, given that if you read police reports of any accident you will find huge discrepancies on simple things like "what colour was the car" "was it a station wagon, a 2-door, or a 4-door" and "was the man or the lady driving". Suppose you do not have any idea that being raped is something to be ashamed for, but you want to milk it for all the sympathy you can get. Or suppose that you don't think that it is shameful and you really want to hurt someone. Win or lose, if *you* don't feel that you have something to lose it will have terrific effect. there are people who will look at anyone charged with rape as a rapist even if he is found not guilty. So, until the whole story comes out it is not a good idea to assume that it is a case of the woman being threatened. Remember that if the man charged did *NOT* rape her, then this is a good thing -- unless people start spreading rumours that he *did* and he threatened her... Laura Creighton utzoo!utcsstat!laura