Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site lzmi.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!harpo!eagle!mhuxl!houxm!hogpc!pegasus!lzmi!rob From: rob@lzmi.UUCP Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: RE: Re: Finances in a marriage (on net.singles?) Message-ID: <154@lzmi.UUCP> Date: Fri, 11-Nov-83 16:45:45 EST Article-I.D.: lzmi.154 Posted: Fri Nov 11 16:45:45 1983 Date-Received: Sun, 13-Nov-83 08:20:11 EST References: <2093@ihldt.UUCP>, <2026@gatech.UUCP> Organization: AT&T Information Systems, Lincroft, NJ Lines: 32 It interesting to note the number of married netters who are reading and responding to articles in net.singles. (I confess I also fall into that category.) >From the responses, it appears that perhaps good ideas are being brought forth that true singles should at least consider before becoming premanently un-single. I would like to propose another topic for discussion amongst the married netters reading this newsgroup: "In retrospect, if you had it to do all over again (getting married, having children, etc.) would you? Why/why not?" Let me qualify this by saying that I am NOT talking about the NEXT time, but this time (i.e. - not that you would marry again, but knowing what you know now, would you have married your current spouse when you did.) This is not a yes or no question. Please back up your responses with specific reasons (I should have waited until I knew him/her better; the sexual revolution started the day I got married; etc.) I realize responses will be personal in nature, but they will serve to enlighten the REAL singles of the net to problems/joys they have not yet had cause to consider. Throwing another log on the fire.......... .......rob PS - Notice how I avoided answering the question myself....... Maybe in a followup......