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From: cheryl2@ihldt.UUCP (cheryl harris)
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Subject: Re: Re: Re: A parallel discussion: net.abby
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Date: Tue, 15-Nov-83 13:10:19 EST
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Posted: Tue Nov 15 13:10:19 1983
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"if you love something set it free.
If it comes back to you, it is yours.
If not, it was never meant to be."

I think that this quote can be looked at in various perspectives.
I personally feel that love is an unselfish affection.  If you really
love a person, you try to encourage their personal growth.  You don't
try to conform/change them to what you feel they should be.  And in
many cases this takes quite a bit of sacrificing.  I don't believe that
love is putting a strong hold on another person.  love is voluntary, love
is freedom(let's be realistic, I don't mean free to have an entourage of
lovers).  If you HAVE TO impose constraints, force a person to conform,
is it worth it???

My personal opinion,
Cheryl Harris