Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site sdccsu3.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!ittvax!dcdwest!sdcsvax!sdccsu3!za16ao From: za16ao@sdccsu3.UUCP Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Women w/o children//Enquirer survey Message-ID: <1289@sdccsu3.UUCP> Date: Tue, 15-Nov-83 16:11:54 EST Article-I.D.: sdccsu3.1289 Posted: Tue Nov 15 16:11:54 1983 Date-Received: Thu, 17-Nov-83 01:47:34 EST References: <197@houxi.UUCP> Organization: U.C. San Diego, Computer Center Lines: 14 I don't know, but I have noticed a trend in American life wherein women who are married often opt not to have children, and where many single women opt *to* have children, either borne or adopted. I do plan to marry in 3 or 4 years (possibly less, if fate intervenes) and talking it over at this point, my boyfriend and I find that basically we don't want to have children right away - perhaps never. Quite possibly I will "come to my senses" (!) some time from now; but then, i can always change my mind, and so can Carl. I don't expect to suffer for not bearing children. There is a distinct possibility that the two of us will take in foster children or even adopt; if we do that I doubt very much I will suffer from not having actually borne them. They would still be my kids... Arwen