Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!security!genrad!decvax!ittvax!wxlvax!dann From: dann@wxlvax.UUCP (Dan Neiman) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: What Is Single (and how do I deal with it) Message-ID: <208@wxlvax.UUCP> Date: Tue, 29-Nov-83 18:38:54 EST Article-I.D.: wxlvax.208 Posted: Tue Nov 29 18:38:54 1983 Date-Received: Thu, 1-Dec-83 04:05:59 EST References: pucc-h.377 Lines: 35 I agree with the points made by Greg Woods and Jeff Sargent as to the basic purpose of net.singles. As I recall, the goal of this group, was more-or-less to be a mutual support forum for those people on the net whose lack of MOTAS (Members of the Appropriate Sex, for those of you who are new here) borders on the chronic. Most of the contributions I've seen lately have been from folks whose only claim to singlehood seems to be legal. I can sympathize with the problems of someone who doesn't know how to deal with his/her last 34 significant others when they all show up at the same party, but only in an avuncular or even voyeuristic fashion. What I'd really like to know is how they attracted number 35. The basic problem is just meeting people. This is always difficult, but after you get out of school, the problem becomes (about) 1.24503 X 10E+06 times worse. Given a large enough pool of MOTAS in which to mingle and enough time to do the mingling, even the least competent of us could probably find at least one person for to go strolling with on moonlight beaches and perform other acts of pleasant non-solitary diversion. So, friends and neightbors, what activities were you engaged in when you found yourself suddenly significantly othered? Was it serendipity or were you actually on the prowl? Well, enough. I want to leave time to read net.parthenogenesis. As they say, familiarity breeds attempt. dann