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From: seifert@ihuxl.UUCP (D.A. Seifert)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: Later lovers - (nf)
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Date: Thu, 1-Dec-83 09:58:51 EST
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Posted: Thu Dec  1 09:58:51 1983
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>	   I just can't relate to a feeling of "feeling like s/he's
>	in good hands now." It's always a personal loss, and to me
>	it always hurts. Like, that used to be ME. That could be ME.
>	Why can't that be ME?
>	

Well, for me it depends on who's decision it was to break up.  It
*always* hurts.  But it helps if I can see that we weren't "meant
to be".  It also depends on who she goes out with later.  If he's
a nice guy, fine.  But if he's a jerk, I get the feeling "she left
me for THAT???"

		still single after all these years,
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