Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site burdvax.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!harpo!floyd!clyde!akgua!sb1!sb6!bpa!burdvax!bmcjmp From: bmcjmp@burdvax.UUCP Newsgroups: net.kids Subject: Re: Demand versus scheduled feeding of infants Message-ID: <1332@burdvax.UUCP> Date: Sat, 3-Dec-83 00:45:15 EST Article-I.D.: burdvax.1332 Posted: Sat Dec 3 00:45:15 1983 Date-Received: Sun, 4-Dec-83 07:36:16 EST References: <492@linus.UUCP> Organization: SDC - a Burroughs Company, Paoli PA Lines: 16 While I have no children of my own yet, I do have some experience with newborns, and it seemed to me that a young baby will not cry unless there is a good reason for it, such as wet diapers, feeling ill, or being hungry. Crying is the only way a baby has of saying, "Something is wrong, please fix it." Feeding on demand will not "teach" babies to cry -- they already know how to do that! Not feeding on demand is more likely to upset the child and result in long, irritating crying spells. Ignoring the child will not make the crying stop, only fixing the problem will. Of course, one cannot always feed the child the very moment they cry. Making them wait a little won't hurt them. But they should be fed as soon as possible. After all, they do know when they need food, and very few babies will overeat if breast-fed. The happiest babies I've known were those breast-fed on a demand basis. Barb Puder, burdvax!bmcjmp (not burdvax!puder)