Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site eosp1.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!harpo!eagle!mhuxl!ulysses!princeton!eosp1!fischer From: fischer@eosp1.UUCP Newsgroups: net.women,net.legal,net.singles Subject: Re: Rape (anywhere, not just Ontario) Message-ID: <421@eosp1.UUCP> Date: Tue, 6-Dec-83 17:01:56 EST Article-I.D.: eosp1.421 Posted: Tue Dec 6 17:01:56 1983 Date-Received: Fri, 9-Dec-83 02:47:48 EST References: <1509@utcsstat.UUCP> Organization: Exxon Office Systems, Princeton, NJ Lines: 35 Laura, I'm really having a hard time believing you mean the things you said about rape. If you do, it reminds me of a famous rape case in England a century or more ago where the defense attorney handed the victim a pen, and challenged her to put it into an open ink bottle he was holding. He, of course, moved the bottle every time she attempted to place the pen in the bottle. He thereby "proved" that it was impossible to rape an unwilling woman. Very recently, in the town I live in, a woman was raped. She was walking to her car when a man came up behind her, grabbed her by the throat, and placed a large knife in her mouth. Would you like to tell me how much resistance you would be willing to put up in a situation like this? Perhaps she should have been more cautious about walking alone in dark parking lots, but, given you were there, with the knife in YOUR mouth, would you struggle? Or, imagine the knife replaced with a gun. More simply still, if you had a choice between just being raped, and being raped and also having the s**t beat out of you, which one would you choose? Getting beat up isn't very pleasant, especially if you have reason to believe that your attacker might get a little carried away and injure you permanently, or perhaps kill you. If a rape victim perceives her life as being in danger, why does she HAVE to struggle? Demanding bruises and rope marks to verify a charge of rape is equivalent to saying that no one should be allowed to charge anyone else of a crime unless they can prove that they exhausted every conceivable means of preventing that crime. All the rapist would have to say is, "Well, she didn't fight too hard, so I guess I figured she didn't really mind. I wouldn't REALLY have killed her." The average rape victim is weak and vulnerable. Women as old as 80 or 90 and children as young as 2 and 3 are raped. Just because YOU feel secure in your ability to defend yourself does not give you the right to cast doubt on all rapes where the victim did not. Elizabeth Fischer Exxon Office Systems decvax!ittvax!eosp1!fischer or allegra!eosp1!fischer