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From: wbpesch@ihuxp.UUCP (Walt Pesch)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Wishy-washy Women
Message-ID: <551@ihuxp.UUCP>
Date: Thu, 15-Dec-83 17:52:34 EST
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Posted: Thu Dec 15 17:52:34 1983
Date-Received: Sat, 17-Dec-83 02:06:30 EST
Organization: AT&T Bell Labs, Naperville, Il
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A comment arose from me when reading a recent article in regards to some
Women's habits when it comes to having some "backbone" with the person
she is having a relationship with.  One of the major things that I
look at is the girl's mind:  when she opens her mouth, is she filling
a vacuum?

I usually try, in a manner that is not confronting or offending, to
get a discussion going in a subject that we differ on, but that does not
raise  the flame level too high.  If she just sits there, with the
limit of her responce being that she agrees with me, it is time
for me to call any possibilities for this relationship to a very
short-lived conclusion.  

This is something that I suppose could not be considered giving enough
chance, but I feel that the mind is of utmost importance, for that is
what the person's feelings and thoughts come from.  
 
Come on guys, isn't it irritating when you ask the girl where she
would like to go, and she answers: "ohhh, I don't know, wherever you
want to go."  It is about that time that I say that I have a
just-scheduled lab session that evening and that I will call her
LATER.


                                          Walt Pesch
                                    AT&T Western Electric
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