Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!security!genrad!decvax!harpo!eagle!mhuxl!ihnp4!inuxc!pur-ee!uiucdcs!uiuccsb!eich From: eich@uiuccsb.UUCP Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: trying too hard - (nf) Message-ID: <4580@uiucdcs.UUCP> Date: Sat, 17-Dec-83 04:31:31 EST Article-I.D.: uiucdcs.4580 Posted: Sat Dec 17 04:31:31 1983 Date-Received: Sun, 18-Dec-83 06:19:14 EST Lines: 19 #R:decwrl:-460100:uiuccsb:15600011:000:908 uiuccsb!eich Dec 17 00:41:00 1983 >> - From which follows: maybe neither of us is such a great >> find as we think we are. (Isn't English wonderful! I >> can't figure if the subject is plural or singular either.) "Neither of us", an elision of "neither one of us", is clearly singular, so "he or she" should be used rather than we (awkward in this case because we occurs twice). As for an example of trying too hard, consider Hector Berlioz, the prototypical Romantic. His crazed infatuation with the Irish Shakespearian Harriet Smithson had him threatening suicide if she did not return his love, and standing up in the middle of her performances to shout oaths at her leading man. What a neurotic (also a bit of a poseur). At least we got the Symphonie Fantastique out of it, which as you may know has as its program an agglutination of Faust, Confessions of an English Opium Eater, and Berlioz's own fantasized life.