Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site bbncca.ARPA Path: utzoo!linus!bbncca!sdyer From: sdyer@bbncca.ARPA (Steve Dyer) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Dealing with ex-lovers Message-ID: <404@bbncca.ARPA> Date: Mon, 19-Dec-83 23:52:30 EST Article-I.D.: bbncca.404 Posted: Mon Dec 19 23:52:30 1983 Date-Received: Tue, 20-Dec-83 02:19:18 EST References: <1220@druxv.UUCP> Organization: Bolt, Beranek and Newman, Cambridge, Ma. Lines: 13 I have managed to remain friends with all of my ex-lovers, but I think that comes from two lucky aspects of our relationships: 1.) we were always friends, first, lovers second 2.) the breakups came naturally out of different needs and desires, and weren't centered on cataclismic events or breaches of trust. So, after a slight "mourning" periods where there was a bit of bad feeling, we just resumed our (newly re-defined) friendship. -- /Steve Dyer decvax!bbncca!sdyer sdyer@bbncca