Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site ulysses.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!seismo!harpo!eagle!mhuxl!ulysses!smb From: smb@ulysses.UUCP Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: woman's opinion on "girl"/"woman" Message-ID: <738@ulysses.UUCP> Date: Tue, 13-Dec-83 15:30:26 EST Article-I.D.: ulysses.738 Posted: Tue Dec 13 15:30:26 1983 Date-Received: Thu, 15-Dec-83 01:16:56 EST References: <1497@tekig1.UUCP>, <307@iheds.UUCP> <6771@arizona.UUCP>, <614@ut-sally.UUCP> Organization: AT&T Bell Laboratories, Murray Hill Lines: 24 Now that this debate has heated up (again -- it happens every few months), it's time for me to throw in my comments about the Sapir-Whorf hypothesis (again). Briefly, this hypothesis holds that language *determines* thought. That is, the words and grammar in your language dictate, to a large extent, what it's possible for you to think about. (Orwell used this as the philosophical basis for Newspeak in 1984, though I don't think he referred to it by name.) If you accept this theory -- and I do, to a large extent -- then it follows that using the word "girl", with all of its connotations of youth and immaturity, cannot fail to affect the way you think about women. To be sure, in this particular case the effect is somewhat mitigated because "girl" is the counterpart (and carries the connotations of) "guy" as well as "boy"; however, phrases like "I'll have my girl handle it" are quite different, and quite harmful. There's an additional point to consider: making the effort to change one's own vocabulary is in itself an action. If you force yourself to stop and think each time you're about to say "girl", you'll think about the question of the status of women and your own attitudes every time. --Steve Bellovin