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From: rh@mit-eddie.UUCP (Randy Haskins)
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Subject: Re: What is "Trying Too Hard"?
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Date: Wed, 4-Jan-84 00:11:17 EST
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To Spaf: as I always say, if an analogy can't take getting pushed to far,
what good is it?

In general, yes, it's more a matter of an emotional niche.  What I find curious
(in view of the way I thought about things before the relationship started) is
that I really don't miss the sex (even though it was for the most
part fantastic) as much as I miss someone to hug as it were.  Before, I was
of the typical "young horny male" mentality that there was no such thing
as "enough sex."  (It's really nice to be able to grow out of silly 
philosophical systems.)  Part of the problem with that relationship, however,
was that IT was sort of on the rebound of one of about 3 years (I thought I
was going to marry the girl, but I was only 19 at the time... more silly
philosophical systems).  Sigh.  Live and try to learn...
-- 
Randwulf  (Randy Haskins);  Path= genrad!mit-eddie!rh