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Subject: Re: Another dumb(?) question - (nf)
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zinfandel!joe    Jan 25 08:52:00 1984

Hi. Don't worry about the "using her" angle. You talk as if she is
passive if not inert in this process. If she's willing it is because
she feels there is something in it for her. Not all women desire only
everlasting relationships. You could say that you're using each other,
and dropping the negative implications of "use" you both benefit.
Give her credit for her own choices. Besides, you'll feel humbler
less lonely, and more honoured if you consider that she's choosing you
too.
			Good Luck,
					Joe Weinstein