Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site wivax.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!wivax!dyer From: dyer@wivax.UUCP (Stephen Dyer) Newsgroups: net.motss Subject: Re: Discrimination, gay marriages Message-ID: <19415@wivax.UUCP> Date: Wed, 18-Apr-84 20:51:51 EST Article-I.D.: wivax.19415 Posted: Wed Apr 18 20:51:51 1984 Date-Received: Fri, 20-Apr-84 01:26:45 EST References: <19407@wivax.UUCP>, <925@hao.UUCP> Organization: Wang Institute, Tyngsboro, Ma. 01879 Lines: 31 Exactly right, Steve. Financial issues. Exactly what I was talking about. Every six months, change partners?!?!? Surely, that's not your idea of commitment, the kind that (supposedly) earns tax deductions for married (heterosexual?) couples. Can you really claim to be a financial unit with a different person every six months? Do you want or expect to be doing that? How much demonstrated commitment does there have to be? Is willingness to fill out a required form enough, regardless of gender(s)? Um, just so no one misunderstands, I'm on Greg's side (reread my articles.) I think the S.F. ordinance was asking exactly for what you object to. My complaint is that long-term gay relationships cannot be presently be recognized as a legal unit for the purposes of taxation, inheritance and the right to live together. Too often one hears of landlords who decide arbitrarily that two unmarried men or women may not share an apartment, or of the situation where one's partner dies, and the surviving person is left on financially shaky ground, or the relatives come in and clean their life away, or the survivor is evicted from the apartment they shared because the dead person's name is on the lease. None of these situations are made up; they have been well publicized in the gay press. It *IS* possible to legally circumvent some of these problems by careful legal attention to wills, insurance policies, tenancies in common, etc, but there are still large inequities. My comment is that the S. F. ordinance doesn't address these problems at all, preferring to institute a quasi-legal morass which is fiscally irresponsible, questionably useful, and not particularly desirable (at least to my mind.) -- /Steve Dyer decvax!bbncca!sdyer sdyer@bbncca