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From: andyb@dartvax.UUCP (Andy Behrens)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: view on male roles
Message-ID: <1124@dartvax.UUCP>
Date: Thu, 5-Apr-84 23:20:31 EST
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Posted: Thu Apr  5 23:20:31 1984
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>      For as long as I have known, the role that I am to play is one of the
>   hunter. The 'goal' consists of genital satisfaction with a MOTOS. The rules
>   of the game consist of:
> 		1) Dressing sharp          
> 		2) Showing off ones affluence  
> 		3) Making smalltalk
> 		4) Being agressive  
>   As long as the rules are followed goals are achieved. As an experiment last
>   year I attracted a MOTOS via the set rules and then reverted back to my old
>   ways. The outcome 9 times out of 10 was rejection. 

The rejection didn't necessarily come from not following the "rules" -- it's
that you changed the way you acted in midstream.

Some people are attracted to affluent sharp-dressing smooth-talkers.  If someone
in that group met you, was attracted you for that reason, and then discovered 
you were "diffident, timid, and shy", the attraction might well fade.

Similarly, a person attracted to someone who was laid-back, humble, and quiet
might be disappointed to find out that the object of their attraction was really
pushy and immodest.  
-- 
			Andy Behrens
			P.O. Box 24, East Thetford, Vermont
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