Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site watcgl.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!watcgl!dmmartindale From: dmmartindale@watcgl.UUCP (Dave Martindale) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: Sexual Equality is a Two-Way Street Message-ID: <2345@watcgl.UUCP> Date: Fri, 30-Mar-84 22:40:58 EST Article-I.D.: watcgl.2345 Posted: Fri Mar 30 22:40:58 1984 Date-Received: Sat, 31-Mar-84 08:42:32 EST References: <6595@decwrl.UUCP> Organization: U of Waterloo, Ontario Lines: 30 From: dyer@vaxuum.DEC (Official Mail of the 1984 Olympics) Subject: Sexual Equality is a Two-Way Street Message-ID: <6595@decwrl.UUCP> | Sexual Equality is a Two-Way Street | I'm pretty ambivalent about the issue of net.women.only. If some women want a women-only forum, I'm not about to suggest its can- cellation. On the other hand, I can't help but find sexist overtones in the suggestion that every man is going to hurl criticisms and no woman is going to. I realize the likelihood of that occurring in gen- eral, but I feel that exclusion of participants on basis of gender does little to discourage sexism. The real problem, I think, was one of finding a forum where (some) women can feel free to post things without getting comments which are unconstructive or just downright stupid thrown at them, inhibiting them from posting further. It may be true that only a small minority of men made net.women unpleasant for these women, but these few were enough. Someone suggested creating a newsgroup which excluded men in order to provide this forum, and it was created. Now this does not mean that anyone felt that "all men are going to hurl criticisms", but that restricting input from all men was the only PRACTICAL way to draw a dividing line. Someone has now set up a mailing list as another attempt to provide a women's forum. It seems to be working much better than net.women.only did. There are many women contributing to it who never did to net.women.only, and discussion is much more open. And there are some men who contribute, though they are a definite minority.