Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site lanl-a.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!floyd!cmcl2!lanl-a!jad From: jad@lanl-a.UUCP Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: Feminism and the double standard Message-ID: <4816@lanl-a.UUCP> Date: Sat, 7-Apr-84 02:47:09 EST Article-I.D.: lanl-a.4816 Posted: Sat Apr 7 02:47:09 1984 Date-Received: Sun, 8-Apr-84 01:23:09 EST References: <6448@umcp-cs.UUCP> Organization: Los Alamos National Laboratory Lines: 39 From what I've read in this newsgroup, I believe I am about to take an unpopular stand. Such is life. I believe the idea is that it is more or less ok for women to use flirting as a tool in the commercial marketplace. On the other hand: Would a woman who uses flirting in this fashion do so with another woman? If not, why not? (Gosh, it just wouldn't work, would it.... :-) So, such women allow their behavior to be altered by the gender of their intended recipient.... But I thought the whole point was that (on the whole) we want to treat everybody as PEOPLE, regardless of sex- somehow that seems the professional way to act. So how come these women are so keen on continuing to use an obviously sexist ploy???? The most prevalent excuse seems to be: Well, it works! I am afraid that just doesn't cut it - lots of things "work", but it doesn't mean that we ought to do them. ( A similar idea was brought up in relation to software piracy lately - it may be easy to pirate and certainly does provide one with that they might have to otherwise do without, but that doesn't make it right!) Wishing I had an ablative heat shield Zozzles The Freep