Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 (Tek) 9/26/83; site teklabs.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!harpo!seismo!hao!hplabs!tektronix!tekchips!teklabs!keithe From: keithe@teklabs.UUCP (Keith Ericson) Newsgroups: net.kids Subject: remarks on remarks Message-ID: <2832@teklabs.UUCP> Date: Thu, 26-Apr-84 07:34:00 EDT Article-I.D.: teklabs.2832 Posted: Thu Apr 26 07:34:00 1984 Date-Received: Mon, 30-Apr-84 05:28:22 EDT Organization: Tektronix, Beaverton OR Lines: 25 I got the biggest kick out of the line that went something like "I don't have kids, but when I do I know my dedication will be 100%." That's an extremely easy statement to make (about the 100% dedication) but it only proves that you don't have kids yet. I grant you that you may approach a high level of interactivity/decication with your first child, but when number 2 or number 3 come along there just plain isn't enough time in the day to carry out (what I infer from) your 100% dedication statement. I could elaborate, but (1) people without kids probably don't understand/believe it, and (2) people with kids do understand and don't need to be told (again). As for the fathers staying home and the mothers working: when my wife gets to the point in her career that her income is adequate to pay all the bills I'll quit in a minute to stay home and take care of both the kids and the house. [But now I'm guilty of the same kind of statement I'm arguing against in the above paragraph: I don't stay home to take care of the kids and the house yet, but when I do I know my dedication will be 100%.] keith ericson at teklabs "The opinions expressed by the husband of this home are not necessarily those of the management."