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From: alanurm@tonto.DEC (And a road of my own....)
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Subject: To look or not to look revisited...
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Date: Thu, 3-May-84 12:43:04 EDT
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Posted: Thu May  3 12:43:04 1984
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>Posted: Tue May  1 19:47:01 1984


>I agree with most of what was said about having to go find the proper MOTOS,
>however, difficult that may be. (I personally find it VERY difficult.) I
>notice also that you find the beginning of a relationship (falling in love,
>etc.) the most thrilling part of the experience. I empathize but find this
>problematic: the only way to continue having such thrills is to start new
>relationships which usually means ending the old ones. I'd like to think I
>can find a relationship thrilling enough even when it gets old. 
>			Still looking for clues at the scene of the crime...

Oh yeah... Sorry, I didn't mean that the feelings at the beginning of the
relionship were the purpose for finding and starting that relationship. That
was meant as a example of why one should take a chance on a new relationship
rather than stay home and be complacent with the comfortable but unfulfilled
life that so many in my age group (30-40) seem to lead nowadays. "There's
nobody out there so why look? syndrome". I AGREE that once a good thing is
found with that SO, keep it by all means. After all, most of us are looking
for longterm relationships though most will not admit it.

			What will you give me for my dreams?	

					Maud'dib
AKA 
Len Alanurm
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