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From: rcd@opus.UUCP
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Subject: Re: To look or not to look......
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Date: Sat, 5-May-84 01:39:12 EDT
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Posted: Sat May  5 01:39:12 1984
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>...However, the biggest
>problem (in my opinion) for someone without a current SO (significant
>other) is how to relax and stop viewing everybody in sight as a
>"candidate."

Well put.  Think about it.  If you're always looking, you're going to ACT
like you're always looking.  Under those circumstances, you'll find that
there are three types of MOTAS that you might meet in an "appropriate
circumstance":
	- those who aren't paying enough attention to see that you're "on
	  the make" all the time
	- those who are interested in someone who's always on the make
	- those who see your head game but figure there's a real person
	  underneath, and chance to decide to take the time to find out
To me, the first group is dullards; the second, flaky; the third, very
worth knowing but this isn't the way to find them.

Trouble is, it's hard NOT to be looking all the time when you're feeling
lonely.
-- 
...Relax...don't worry...have a homebrew.		Dick Dunn
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