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From: arn@foxvax1.UUCP (A.R. Nagesh )
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: Are there any "Men- or Lady-Killers" out there?
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Date: Mon, 14-May-84 16:15:59 EDT
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Posted: Mon May 14 16:15:59 1984
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	Personally, I feel that there are lots of us who have tried the fast
	lane but have miserably failed ! I guess most of us in the computer
	field have tendencies to behave "digitally" (i.e.very fast "1", or very
	slow "0") in large social groups (singles bars). Secondly, our egos
	do not allow us to accept one-night-stands as gracefully as you seem
	to suggest or for that matter, as realistically. Recently, I did go
	"hunting" and did pick up a very fast woman (a journalist) and we 
	both knew that it was going to be a one-night-stand ! But, strangely
	enough, I started feeling differently afterward (well, that was my
	first one-night-stand !) and so called her to be friendly and all.
	Her reaction surprised the hell out of me ! She said that I am too
	sophisticated, too much of a computer-type and too intense !! And I
	have had this complaint of being too intense from many women. What
	confuses me is that I am too intense, but not fast enough to be
	accepted in the fast lane. My general feeling is that there are 
	certain social stigmas attached to being a particular type of person
	and it is very hard to pretend to be someone other than the stereo-
	type ! So much for trying to be in the fast lane ......... HA !!

					Nagesh

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