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Subject: On The Effect Of Intensity... - (nf)
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zinfandel!joe    May 18 07:46:00 1984


	Hi.

The occasions where I see "intensity" disliked are when the intensity
is aligned with a tacit request or palpable searching for equal commit-
ment. While the desire for equal focus is understandable, it is perceived
as a pressure by the other party. In cases where intensity is found in a
person that has no problem with reserved, puzzled, and even flighty behav-
iour on the part of other people, especially in reaction to his or her
chosen path ( read "intensity" ) I find that the attractive powers of that
intensity naturally come to the fore.
	You're pretty when you like who you are, and you will bring the
matching qualities out in others, from each to the extent that it is in
their character.

					Love and Good Luck,
						Joe Weinstein