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Subject: Re: thoughts on desperation
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Date: Mon, 21-May-84 00:26:41 EDT
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Posted: Mon May 21 00:26:41 1984
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Jeff Sargent, talking to the many who so desperately want an SO:
>What are you really desperate for?
Sex.

No, seriously now, if you're going to do that sort of introspection, you'd
better keep in mind just how human beings work - you have to reckon with
your hormones in this sort of matter.

>Based on my own experience and feelings, I might suspect that a lot of
>desperate people are really seeking forgiveness for something -- for existing,
>for being who and what they are, or perhaps for something they've done that
>they feel guilty about...

If you've got this sort of problem, take care of it BEFORE you get deeply
involved with someone else.  If you don't, you may just end up spending a
lot of time playing guilt trips with each other.

And Jeff, if Christ is the answer, you've asked the wrong question for this
group.  Come on, I don't expect my wife to grant me eternal life any more
than I expect Jesus to come downstairs for a hug and kiss while I'm
working!
-- 
...A friend of the devil is a friend of mine.		Dick Dunn
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