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From: anita@drux3.UUCP (HornAI)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: re: Staying friends with an ex
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Date: Wed, 23-May-84 18:06:27 EDT
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Posted: Wed May 23 18:06:27 1984
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Randy:  I am a person like your girlfriend.  With me, it's just too difficult
to change the nature of a relationship in mid-stride.  I need a definite
change in circumstances, like not communicating for awhile, to adjust to
the change in the relationship.  I should note here that I usually feel
this way only when the other person is more responsible for the decision to
break up than I am.  It's different when it's the other way around.  Try
calling her after a month or two to see how things are going.  Maybe she
will be feeling differently by then.

                                                  Anita