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From: ab3@stat-l (Rsk the Wombat)
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Subject: Re: A question on distances
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Date: Thu, 24-May-84 11:48:03 EDT
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Posted: Thu May 24 11:48:03 1984
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	A second to the idea of writing; C'mon Chuq, unlimber that golden
pen (keyboard?) and fire it up.

	I might also mention that being apart does tend to create tension
when you *are* together (at least in my experience) since both partners tend
to try *too* hard to make the most of the little time they have together; this
creates stress and dissension (sometimes).

	Sometimes, rather than that big do-all see-all go-everywhere weekend,
you just need to lounge around the house together, watch the baseball game on
the tube, do the dishes, and just be mundane together.  It helps.  Well, it
least it helps around here.

	You might try the old "surprise visit" bit too, as in: "Hi, I'm packed,
see you in XX hours."  Works wonders.
-- 
Rsk the Wombat
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