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From: jamcmullan@wateng.UUCP (Judy McMullan)
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Subject: Re:  Topic of Anger
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Date: Fri, 1-Jun-84 10:42:54 EDT
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Posted: Fri Jun  1 10:42:54 1984
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	>How do you handle anger with your SO??

Well, coming from a large, noisy family -- I usually fall back on my old style
of shouting something like "ARE YOU CRAZY? THERE'S NO WAY I'M VISITING THAT
CREEP WITH YOU!!" (or whatever). Since my SO comes from a small, quiet family
he cannot understand this venting of steam and is completely bewildered at my
violent reaction and rather terrified by my seeming extreme of emotion.
By now, I have let off steam and am perfectly happy and calm and ready to
discuss things reasonably. He is a quivering wreck and afraid to say another
word.
I do not recommend this method of handling anger!!	:-)

		--Judy McMullan