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From: chuqui@nsc.UUCP (Chuq Von Rospach)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: THE kiss of death (insecure women)
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Date: Sun, 24-Jun-84 11:51:09 EDT
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Posted: Sun Jun 24 11:51:09 1984
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>     Yep.  I quite agree.  Being labeled "nice" or a "gentleman" is the
>kiss of death as far as becoming some woman's SO.

Bull. Puckey. I know more exceptions to this rule than I do people who fall
under it. I happen to consider myself (and I've had others agree--
references available upon request *snicker*) a 'nice' person or a 'gentleman'
and I've never found it to be the kiss of death. It is only a problem if:
	1) you run around with people who aren't able to cope with niceness
	2) you don't feel comfortable being nice because you are doing it
	   because you feel you should instead of wanting to or for some 
	   other reason.

>What makes "nice"
>people so unattractive for a really serious relationship to so many
>women excapes me.

It could always be that they simply don't see the 'nice'ness, either
because it really isn't there or it is very well hidden.

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