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From: hoff@ihuxu.UUCP (GYPSY -jah)
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Subject: Re: Intelligence in a MOTOS [a NEW topic]
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Date: Fri, 13-Jul-84 11:46:24 EDT
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I'd like to add a third category for the Intelligence in a MOTOS listing,

3) 'Affairs of the Heart' Intelligence - The experience of interacting and
actually "experiencing" MOTOS of many different walks of life.  This class
includes those who have had much practice, failure and success with 
relationships.  These people have no question in their mind that they have
felt genuine LOVE (vs ONLY being in love) and also enormous anguish and
frustration when something they want terribly doesn't/can't come about.

I feel this needs a category all its own because these experiences are the
hardest to come by and the quickest to run from.  If someone is willing to
get back on the horse..... even after being thrown AND stepped on ......
then the strength to get through the rest of life's "bum steers" is there
and probably cultivated.  I'll pick these people every time.

The "genuine LOVE vs ONLY being in love" comes from the expert psychologists.
One of the books which speaks on this subject is THE ROAD LESS TRAVELED.
It's a good book, folks!!


				Julie Hoff  ihnp4!ihuxu!hoff