Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site umcp-cs.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!mcnc!philabs!cmcl2!seismo!rlgvax!cvl!umcp-cs!flink From: flink@umcp-cs.UUCP Newsgroups: net.women,net.singles Subject: what the big deal is Message-ID: <7851@umcp-cs.UUCP> Date: Thu, 12-Jul-84 00:03:12 EDT Article-I.D.: umcp-cs.7851 Posted: Thu Jul 12 00:03:12 1984 Date-Received: Tue, 17-Jul-84 05:49:16 EDT Distribution: net Organization: Univ. of Maryland, Computer Science Dept. Lines: 36 But what is being objected to here? ONE person's opinions about men (and in some other's letters, the fact that whole bunch of women didn't leap onto the bandwagon to defend men's feelings*). Lissen, [* Iconoclasts's note: the author's choice of word here constitues an error in diction. So SIC em!] honeys, ya gotsta take care o yo own feelins yoseff. L S Chabot Correct me if I misunderstand: the point here is that men have to defend themselves, as a class, from "reverse bigotry", with no help from women; and likewise, women should not demand help from men when women are the target? Well NO DEAL. I intend to come to other groups' defense whenever I perceive that they are getting rotten treatment, AND I EXPECT THE SAME FROM YOU, AND I'LL GET ON YOUR CASE ABOUT IT. So sign me, "My sister's keeper". Now that NET WARS is over (I hope), let me say a few words about those famous words. It sounds very easy to denounce "most men" as "insensitive, chauvanist assholes". But did you really have an eye for the sensitive kind? DID YOU HAVE ANY IDEA OF WHAT IS A "SIGN" OF SENSITIVITY? DID YOU DO ANYTHING TO ENCOURAGE OR SUPPORT THAT? [EMPHASIS added] -- Farzin Mokhtarian Path: ubc-vision!mokhtar A H H A !!! A A H H A A !!! A A H H A A !!! AAAAA HHHHHHH AAAAA ! A A H H A A A A H H A A !!! This guy Farzin Mokhtarian must be very smart -- he keeps saying things I agree with! (:-)) --The expiring iconoclast (I'm leaving soon for Wash U. in St. Lou), Paul Torek, umcp-cs!flink