Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 exptools 1/6/84; site ihuxe.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!mgnetp!ihnp4!ihuxe!rainbow From: rainbow@ihuxe.UUCP Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: RE:turning off the faucet Message-ID: <739@ihuxe.UUCP> Date: Tue, 17-Jul-84 12:53:30 EDT Article-I.D.: ihuxe.739 Posted: Tue Jul 17 12:53:30 1984 Date-Received: Wed, 18-Jul-84 02:52:55 EDT Sender: rainbow@ihuxe.UUCP Organization: AT&T Bell Labs, Naperville, IL Lines: 33 > "I was defending flesh and blood people, > most of whom don't deserve Trish's hostility." Alan. Oh, but it was okay in the vice versa sense??? Even if you weren't personally guilty, you certainly weren't agreeing with me. No one has the power to judge who deserves hostility and who doesnt. I am getting very confused with the countless articles and who has been saying what. > "Accuracy aside, her comments were very hostile. That's not my opinion > of putting it very well. Trish's hostility is not productive. > It will *never* help the situation." Alan. Oh, but the responses she received were put well, productive, non-hostile, and helpful to the situation??? I dont want to seem like I'm putting words in your mouth, but I can't help but see a double standard here. I have only seen you denounce Trish so far. ****************************************************************************** I would like to take this time to express I few opinions which I havent given yet. First, I didn't find Trish's statements offensive to me. I did not feel attacked by them. I would not be bothered if her words are left as is. But in the same sense, since there are people who were offended by them, I will support them in their claim to have Trish tone them done. Trish could easily express her feelings using less forceful words in deference to those people. But she does at all times have the right to express those feelings even if they are negative towards a particular group/subject. And anyone who cares enough can make the effort to discuss them with her. But the final choice or decision is still hers. We cannot force what one person thinks is right upon another. And we do not have the right to say another person's opinions are wrong. Let alone in the harsh way it was done. Robert