Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site mit-vax.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!mgnetp!ihnp4!zehntel!dual!amd!decwrl!decvax!genrad!mit-eddie!mit-vax!lisa From: lisa@mit-vax.UUCP (Lisa Chabot) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: WORST kiss of death Message-ID: <2319@mit-vax.UUCP> Date: Tue, 3-Jul-84 20:44:44 EDT Article-I.D.: mit-vax.2319 Posted: Tue Jul 3 20:44:44 1984 Date-Received: Fri, 27-Jul-84 05:26:12 EDT Organization: MIT, Cambridge, MA Lines: 24 Look, engineers may not be rich, but most of us make more than, say, your average divorced secretary with a kid or two (my closest example is that I make more than my mother). And single, never-married engineers don't often have those couple of kids to support. I can kind of understand the desperation that might be felt by a woman with a low salary and kids at home might feel looking around at an office of comfortably paid engineers with no societal obligations (you know, children). There are other problems that the divorced mother faces that the unmarried person doesn't, and it relates to those kids again: babysitters--they cost money. Maybe you pick up the woman and you drive somewhere, but the cost of your gas may be small compared to the expense and time involved in hiring a sitter (you just can't count on maiden aunts these days :-). So, look, compared to a divorced mother in a secretarial position, we single engineers ARE rich. L S Chabot Path: ...decvax!decwrl!dec-rhea!dec-amber!chabot UUCP: ...decwrl!dec-rhea!dec-amber!chabot ARPA: ...chabot%amber.DEC@decwrl.ARPA USFail: DEC, MR03-1/K20, 2 Iron Way, Marlborough, MA 01752