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From: sunny@sun.uucp (Sunny Kirsten)
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Subject: Re: affairs
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Date: Tue, 24-Jul-84 05:03:17 EDT
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Lust and Need are poor substitutes for Affection and Unconditional Love
Sex can be fun for it's own sake, sure, but it's only pleasure of the body,
not the soul.  It's meaningless and empty.

To me, having sex the first time you sleep with someone is rushing it.
If you can't give love and affection all night without needing an orgasm,
you're interested in yourself, not your "partner".

15 minutes at the No Tell Motel?  Why bother?  That's not an affair.  That's
pushbutton gratification.  But, then, to me, a quickie takes a couple hours.
And if you can divide that into foreplay vs sex, you've missed the point.

The beginning of an affair is conversation and affection, caring and hugging,
love and kisses.  EMOTIONAL INVOLVEMENT!  not sex with a barfly.

{ucbvax|decvax|ihnp4}!sun!sunny(Sunny Kirsten of Sun Microsystems)