Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site randvax.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!ittvax!dcdwest!sdcsvax!sdcrdcf!randvax!edhall From: edhall@randvax.UUCP Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Christianity, Statistics, Sex and Marriage Message-ID: <1950@randvax.UUCP> Date: Wed, 29-Aug-84 02:10:52 EDT Article-I.D.: randvax.1950 Posted: Wed Aug 29 02:10:52 1984 Date-Received: Thu, 30-Aug-84 12:29:48 EDT References: <226@uwmacc.UUCP> Organization: Rand Corp., Santa Monica Lines: 78 + ``Living in the abyss of ignorance yet wise in their own conceit, deluded fools go round and round, the blind led by the blind.'' -- The Upanishads I'm going to summarize Paul Dubois' claim of validity for the statement ``Christian women enjoy sex more than non-Christians,'' as no mortal should have to contend with a 144-line USENET article except as pun- ishment. Redbook Magazine, a fairly traditional woman's magazine, did a reader survey which elicited about 100,000 responses. One of the things this survey asked about was sexual satisfaction. Another was how religious the reader considered herself. There seemed to be a positive correlation between the two. Paul asserts that since most of these women were undoubtedly Christian (the majority religion in the US, where most readers reside), that the result extends to Christian women in general. Also, since it seems more likely that women would have cause for sexual dissatisfaction than men, the results hold for Christians in general. Then Paul goes on to explain why might this result be true. Christians, at least those people Paul calls Christians, believe that sex belongs only in marriage. Since sex outside of marriage is ``degrading and immoral,'' it ultimately isn't as much fun, either. And, furthermore, those who disagree that sex belongs only in marriage will ``become disil- lusioned later in life.'' Responses To Some Statistical Fallacies: 1. The intersection of respondants to surveys in Redbook, and Christians, is neither representative of women or Christians. Sample size makes no difference whatever in eliminating this skew. A *random sample* of American women, even if much smaller (say 1000), would be much more accurate. 2. There is no attempt to use an objective scale for either religious belief or sexual satisfaction. This would invalidate the survey by itself, as it would allow other factors to intercede. 3. Because of the subjective nature of the self-evaluations, there is simply no way that anything can be said about the self-evaluations of respondants' partners, especially in regard to a separate cor- relation. It would be quite posible for a positive correlation to exist between women's and men's sexual satisfaction, yet a negative correlation exist between men's sexual satisfaction and their partners' religiousity. 4. That any correlation is due to a particular practice is a complete leap of faith, especially when no evidence is given that religious self-assessment has any relationship to the frequency of that practice (i.e., marriage). This is a dangerous assumption. 5. Most important, correlation does not in itself imply causality. Responses To Some Just Plain Fallacies: 1. Sexual satisfaction does not equal sexual enjoyment. A woman who doesn't know any better might consider sex ``satisfactory'' if it doesn't hurt. Thus the survey may well just measure that Christian women are less demanding of their sex lives. 2. Women who have experienced more than one sexual partner are probably more likely to be critical, as they have a basis for comparison. Once again, greater dissatisfaction may just be a matter of greater awareness. 3. It is entirely possible, even common, for men to enjoy sex while their partner doesn't, even if their partner is ``faking'' it. 4. Comparing an ideal (``Christian Marriage'') to All The Rest Of Reality is certainly stacking the deck. Marriages between Christians go sour, too, though perhaps are more likely not to end in divorce. 5. Paul seems to assert that the more a Christian falls in line with ``Christian Behavior,'' the better Christian she/he is. Might I remind him that Christ himself prefered a Tax Collector and a Prostitute over his own religious leaders (whose *behavior* was essentially beyond reproach, though vacuous and hypocritical)? Paul is treading dangerously close to a ``salvation through works'' attitude here. Well, enough. 72 lines in response to 144 is still too much...but I'll leave it as it stands. -Ed Hall decvax!randvax!edhall