Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site pucc-i Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!mgnetp!ihnp4!inuxc!pur-ee!CS-Mordred!Pucc-H:Pucc-I:ag5 From: ag5@pucc-i (Henry C. Mensch) Newsgroups: net.women,net.motss,net.singles Subject: Re: homosexual associations Message-ID: <432@pucc-i> Date: Fri, 31-Aug-84 17:04:08 EDT Article-I.D.: pucc-i.432 Posted: Fri Aug 31 17:04:08 1984 Date-Received: Mon, 3-Sep-84 08:33:16 EDT References: <4061@fortune.UUCP> <1127@hao.UUCP> Organization: Purdue University Computing Center Lines: 30 Well, it seems obvious to me that (at least for most gay men and women that I know) gays have a general idea of how straights think because they are raised as straights. Unfortunately, we aren't blessed with a society whose parents might consider that their children might not be heterosexual. From my experience, children on this planet tend to be taught to grow up, get married and (maybe) have children of their own. Since some of the children who are so indoctrinated are gay, it makes sense that they would have a pretty good handle on how straights think. As for straights thinking of men only when considering homosexuals, I suspect that original writer may be right. Ask any ten friends of what they picture a homosexual to look like. The odds are against it being a pretty woman, and the odds are for someone who wears leather, or abuses small children, or someone who may be a transvestite. Even when various cities have their Gay/Lesbian pride celebrations, few women are seen. Perhaps if lesbians were more visible to the outside world, they might become part of the stereotype (if, indeed, this is desirable). NAME: Henry C. Mensch UUCP: {decvax, ucbvax, allegra}!pur-ee!pucc-i!ag5 {seismo, harpo, teklabs, ihnp4}!pur-ee!pucc-i!ag5 ARPA: pur-ee!pucc-i!ag5@ucb-vax i.ag5@purdue-mordred CSNET: i.ag5@mordred