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From: densinge@stolaf.UUCP (Charles W. Densinger)
Newsgroups: net.women
Subject: Re: Is this rape?
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Date: Thu, 25-Oct-84 18:30:34 EDT
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Posted: Thu Oct 25 18:30:34 1984
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     Personally, when I hear "no" and suspect that it may not
mean "no", I ask.  After that point, if the woman is not honest
with me, I would probably loose interest.  I have, however, never
been in that situation and been treated dishonestly.  For me,
the bottom line of this issue (knowing what is appropriate
and when) is respect.  I hope that most of us care about a
person we are in a sexual relationship with, at least enough to
respect their wishes concerning limits in sexual activity,
and also enough to be honest about what we really want.

     I don't care much for "the dating game," nor do I care
to date someone who is into it.

Chuck Densinger @ St. Olaf College
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          --"Honesty is such a lonely word..."