Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/5/84; site wucs.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxj!ihnp4!wucs!esk From: esk@wucs.UUCP (Paul V. Torek) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: How to encourage honesty in communication Message-ID: <442@wucs.UUCP> Date: Fri, 26-Oct-84 00:56:29 EDT Article-I.D.: wucs.442 Posted: Fri Oct 26 00:56:29 1984 Date-Received: Fri, 26-Oct-84 09:46:49 EDT Distribution: net Organization: Washington U. in St. Louis, CS Dept. Lines: 21 [] > Come on! There's a familiar way young women in their teens > act toward guys: it's called "playing hard to get". One essentially > acts as if one doesn't want to make the acquaintance of the guy one > really wants to meet, and it is calculated that such actions are supposed > to act as some sort of "test" or "encouragement" for the guy to actually > overcome the lady's reticence. > Gerald Owens > Owens@Gatech Come on yourself! There's a simple solution -- it requires a certain amount of cooperation among men. Namely, take the first "no" for a final answer. This will make "playing hard to get" an unsuccesful strategy; eventually, it will not be tried. Then we will all be better off. Whaddayasay -- deal? Another humane solution from --Paul V Torek, ihnp4!wucs!wucec1!pvt1047 Please send any mail directly to this address, not the sender's. Thanks.