Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site decwrl.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!decwrl!dec-rhea!dec-amber!chabot From: chabot@amber.DEC (L S Chabot) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: Association for Women in Computing Message-ID: <4128@decwrl.UUCP> Date: Mon, 5-Nov-84 17:25:28 EST Article-I.D.: decwrl.4128 Posted: Mon Nov 5 17:25:28 1984 Date-Received: Tue, 6-Nov-84 08:02:57 EST Sender: daemon@decwrl.UUCP Organization: DEC Engineering Network Lines: 34 From _Kiss_Sleeping_Beauty_Good-Bye_ (subtitled Breaking the Spell of Feminine Myths and Models) by Madonna Kolbenschlag, Bantam Books, copyright 1979, ISBN 0-553-14912-1 [p. 45]: "By contrast, women are not so comfortable in groups--chiefly because it confirms and accentuates their identity as females, a class excluded from the dominant caste in our society. In part, these feelings are introjections of a traditional male paranoia about women in groups. Aristophanes treated the projection humorously in _Lysistrata_. Early American conduct manuals cautioned men against allowing their wives to associate too much with their female peers, lest the "neighborhood squadrons of she-commanders" might encroach on their "natural sovereignty" as husbands. Others with less of a sense of irony or righteousness have treated the problem with sadistic vengeance in purging "witches" and other harbingers of female energy. In a typical business office today, a bevy of secretaires excites no notice. But half a dozen women junior executives having lunch together is likely to conjure up "conspiracy" in the minds of many men. Likewise, on a university campus, if one sees a group of men together it does not penetrate the consciousness at all. Nor does a group of female undergraduates. But a group of women faculty: How the comments do fly! How the plots do multiply! "What is happening, of course, is that a dominant caste is reacting to a threat to their established sway. ... "Women can be forgiven for their instinctive uneasiness in all-female groups. Unless they are somewhat isolated from the real world (as with convents and girls' schools), they are bound to experience negative projections from the surrounding social texture. ..." Quoted without permission. ----------- L S Chabot UUCP: ...decwrl!dec-rhea!dec-amber!chabot ARPA: ...chabot%amber.DEC@decwrl.ARPA USFail: DEC, MR03-1/K20, 2 Iron Way, Marlborough, MA 01752 shadow: [ISSN 0018-9162 v17 #10 p7, bottom vt100, col3, next to next to last]