Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site bbncca.ARPA Path: utzoo!linus!bbncca!sdyer From: sdyer@bbncca.ARPA (Steve Dyer) Newsgroups: net.flame,net.religion Subject: Re: Flame: Sargent's theory of homosexuality Message-ID: <1147@bbncca.ARPA> Date: Fri, 16-Nov-84 13:19:14 EST Article-I.D.: bbncca.1147 Posted: Fri Nov 16 13:19:14 1984 Date-Received: Sat, 17-Nov-84 01:42:30 EST References: <1132@bbncca.ARPA> <1151@shark.UUCP> Organization: Bolt, Beranek and Newman, Cambridge, Ma. Lines: 32 Read the article again. The passage: >My thesis is that confirmed homosexuals became convinced very early on -- in early >childhood, perhaps -- that the other sex was somehow an enemy, and that being >intimate with an other-sex person would be extremely threatening. However, the >mere fact that their belief is very deep-seated, and probably based on very deep >wounds, does not mean that it can't be changed. Having God's love and power to >assist helps a lot. > Jeff Sargent belies your charge that he was only talking about himself. Sargent has already made the claim that he isn't a "confirmed homosexual." If he limited his comments to his own peccadillos, then I would just chalk it up to good 'ol Jeff. The offensive part is that he is fearless in making claims about other people, and these claims are NOT innocent charges. The other sex is NOT an enemy to me, or to any other gay people I know, nor am I, or others, "wounded." Indeed, the only "wounds" I bear are those made by people like Sargent who persist in making careless remarks like those above. Your comments: >Oh, come ON, Steve! Gays are no more NOR LESS human than anyone else >and will have just as many (or as few) neuroses as anyone else! are pretty irrelevant to this discussion. I have never ever made a claim about the mental health of entire groups of people, in distinction to the first quoted paragraph above which makes a pretty good case for the questionable mental health of gay people. -- /Steve Dyer {decvax,linus,ima,ihnp4}!bbncca!sdyer sdyer@bbncca.ARPA