Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/17/84 chuqui version 1.7 9/23/84; site nsc.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!cbosgd!ihnp4!nsc!chuqui From: chuqui@nsc.UUCP (Cheshire Chuqui) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Interpersonal relations,Entrepenurial activities,matter/antimatter Message-ID: <1899@nsc.UUCP> Date: Tue, 27-Nov-84 00:32:38 EST Article-I.D.: nsc.1899 Posted: Tue Nov 27 00:32:38 1984 Date-Received: Wed, 28-Nov-84 01:51:10 EST References: <> Reply-To: chuqui@nsc.UUCP (Cheshire Chuqui) Distribution: net Organization: Plaid Heaven Lines: 28 Summary: In article <2591@dartvax.UUCP> tdxsys@dartvax.UUCP (TDX sys Mark Mullen) writes: > Just having had my fledgling company smash another of my carefully >tended relationships to bits, I begin to wonder if the Republican concepts >of free enterprise and family values are not mutually exclusive. > As far as I can tell , the pursuit of one will cost you the other, with >exceptions to this rule being mostly attributable to sunspot activity. No, they aren't mutually exclusive, but they do require that the couple work harder and understand their limitations better than if they didn't have the added stress and pressures on them. Any relationship takes work, and time, and caring. My personal feeling is that work never kills a relationship-- a person lets a relationship die because their committment is to work as the top priority. You need to evalutate your motivations towards work and to your personal life and decide which is more important. If work is, be prepared for and accept the fact that your home life will suffer. If your personal life is (not just saying it is) then work to keep your work in perspective so it doesn't injure the rest of your life. Most people, I've found (myself included, although I'm working on it) really put work before the rest of their life, no matter what they say. chuq -- From the center of a Plaid pentagram: Chuq Von Rospach {cbosgd,decwrl,fortune,hplabs,ihnp4,seismo}!nsc!chuqui nsc!chuqui@decwrl.ARPA ~But you know, monsieur, that as long as she wears the claw of the dragon upon her breast you can do nothing-- her soul belongs to me!~