Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/17/84; site opus.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxj!houxm!vax135!cornell!uw-beaver!tektronix!hplabs!hao!nbires!opus!rcd From: rcd@opus.UUCP (Dick Dunn) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Relationships: do ANY of them work? Message-ID: <1046@opus.UUCP> Date: Wed, 23-Jan-85 00:46:52 EST Article-I.D.: opus.1046 Posted: Wed Jan 23 00:46:52 1985 Date-Received: Fri, 25-Jan-85 09:46:35 EST References: <1869@wateng.UUCP> <2242@nsc.UUCP> Distribution: net Organization: NBI,Inc, Boulder CO Lines: 26 > >I've been sitting back and reading this newsgroup for some time now, > >rarely posting anything because I've got little to say. Two things > >strike me as frightening, though: the level of animosity and bitterness > >displayed by contributors regarding the opposite sex; and the fact that > >many of the correspondents to this newsgroup seem to be going through > > a) divorce; > > b) breakup in a close relationship; > > c) being terminally lonely. Consider the audience. First of all, people tune in to net.singles when things get rough in a relationship or things get lonely for want of one. Second, people who are involved in a serious relationship or marriage may not consider themselves "single" and may feel they don't belong in the group or may not feel that they would have anything to contribute. I suppose I'm an exception to the net.singles readership in being solidly un-single--I follow it because I've been once completely round the single/ married/divorced wheel and have a lot of empathy for the things that happen along the way. > ... My parents, for example, are working on #30... Geez, Chuq, that upstages most of Hollywood! I'm only on #2 and I found it trying.:-) -- Dick Dunn {hao,ucbvax,allegra}!nbires!rcd (303)444-5710 x3086 ...Keep your day job 'til your night job pays.