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From: zubbie@wlcrjs.UUCP
Newsgroups: net.women,net.singles
Subject: Re: Ann Landers Survey
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Date: Mon, 21-Jan-85 20:51:54 EST
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Posted: Mon Jan 21 20:51:54 1985
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Reply-To: zubbie@wlcrjs.UUCP (Jeanette Zobjeck)
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When I was married my husband and I had a reasonable sex life but I 
feel that the thing which I held as most special to me were the
times when I was depressed or just plain at odds with the 
world and he would give me a great big hug and not say or
do anything else. It was his was of saying " I'm here if you need
me - lean on me if you want" without intruding into my private "space"

Emotionally a hug is lots more important to me than sex, which is not
implying that sex has no place or value in my life.

Jeanete Zobjeck
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