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From: jeffw@ISM780.UUCP
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: Checking out the motos
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Date: Thu, 24-Jan-85 00:51:10 EST
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Posted: Thu Jan 24 00:51:10 1985
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Nf-From: ISM780!jeffw    Jan 22 16:44:00 1985

I guess my answer to this posting has to be broken into two different
parts.

First, there is the general attraction to the woman.  I see her, 
but I've not yet approached her.  She may or may not see me.  The 
following does not hold true for all the woman I've met and 
liked, but as I try to think of exactly what is going thru my 
mind when I'm about to encounter her here's what I come up 
with....  

If I've heard the woman speaking, I guess I'm attracted first by the 
voice (the way one speaks gives a lot of clues as to the personality and 
demeanor of the person).  My second inclinaton is to look at the face.  
Since the face will be the part of her that I will look at most often if 
a relationship eventually evolves, it is probably the most important of 
all the physical attributes.  Third comes the rest of the body.  
Personally I'm a leg man, but generally I think I look at the whole 
picture before making the conscious (sub-conscious?) decision that I'm 
interested in her.  

Second part: If it's obvious that we are going to be introduced to each 
other or are going to introduce ourselves I'll look at the face and into 
the eyes.  At that point, even if I'm interested physically, there's no 
point in looking anywhere else.  The eyes tell it all as far as I'm 
concerned and hopefully the eye contact will be for more than 3 
pico-seconds, though in most cases that is wishful thinking.  

jeffw      !decvax!cca!ima!ism780!jeffw