Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: notesfiles - hp 1.2 08/01/83; site hp-pcd.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxj!houxm!ihnp4!crsp!pesnta!hplabs!hp-pcd!daver From: daver@hp-pcd.UUCP (daver) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Checking out the motos Message-ID: <10400014@hp-pcd.UUCP> Date: Sat, 19-Jan-85 22:07:00 EST Article-I.D.: hp-pcd.10400014 Posted: Sat Jan 19 22:07:00 1985 Date-Received: Sun, 27-Jan-85 06:55:47 EST References: <3229@ucla-cs.UUCP> Organization: Hewlett-Packard - Corvallis, OR Lines: 13 Nf-ID: #R:ucla-cs:-322900:hpcvrd:10400014:000:728 Nf-From: hpcvrd!daver Jan 23 19:07:00 1985 I usually look a person in the eye and smile recognition. I find that the people seldom feel threatened and, in fact, often recognize me later and we become friends. More often than I would expect, a person I have smiled at in this way greets me by name and turns out to be someone I had met but not recognized or remembered. I find this much less embarrassing than ignoring someone I should have recognized but who had changed their [note use of neutral third person pronoun - see net.women] hair or something. I live in a relatively small town (population ~40,000) and this technique might not work in Times Square, but it has worked in the SF bay area and even in other parts of NYC. Dave Rabinowitz hplabs!hp-pcd!daver