Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site ucla-cs.ARPA Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!allegra!bellcore!decvax!genrad!panda!talcott!harvard!seismo!hao!hplabs!sdcrdcf!trwrb!trwrba!cepu!ucla-cs!rick From: rick@ucla-cs.UUCP Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: New subject for discussion (finally) Message-ID: <4002@ucla-cs.ARPA> Date: Wed, 20-Feb-85 16:14:40 EST Article-I.D.: ucla-cs.4002 Posted: Wed Feb 20 16:14:40 1985 Date-Received: Tue, 26-Feb-85 20:38:54 EST References: <792@ukma.UUCP> Reply-To: rick@ucla-cs.UUCP (Richard Gillespie) Organization: UCLA Computer Science Department Lines: 15 Summary: In article <792@ukma.UUCP> red@ukma.UUCP (Red Varth) writes: > > How do you deal with parents who ask you when you're getting > married every time you see them? > I never had this problem when I was living with my SO for 4 1/2 years. Both sets of parents had been "trained" by our older siblings so they didn't hastle us too much. There was a little tension until she met my parents and I met hers (both sets of parents were concerned that we were getting into a relationship with the wrong person) but everyone got along just fine. No, parents weren't a problem. What surprised me was when we moved to Los Angeles we were asked (fairly often) "Why haven't you gotten married?" by people we had barely met! Their attitude seemed to be you should get married just 'cause there is nothing better to do. No wonder divorce is such a problem.